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Baby, adoptive parents dead
The social roots of a Detroit tragedy
By Kate Randall
30 April 2004
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Leonard and Carissa Columbus, a recently married couple living
in suburban Detroit, were unable to have children but desperately
wanted to be parents. Sara Vanpopering, the 19-year-old mother
of two small children, found single parenthood difficult and was
seriously considering giving up her children for adoption. One
might have thought the intersection of these lives could result
in a happy ending for all involved. Instead, it ended horrifically
earlier this month with the death of six-month-old Tyler Vanpopering
and the suicide of the Columbus couple.
The Southgate, Michigan, community and Downriver Detroit area
were shocked and saddened by the deaths. Coverage in local newspapers
and television broadcasts provided the standard non-explanation
for such a social tragedy: inexplicablehow could it happen?well
never understand. Southgate Police Chief Larry Hall described
it as a tragedy beyond belief.
But delving into the set of circumstances surrounding the case,
a picture begins to emerge of lives wrought with stress, economic
hardship, and lack of social support. These conditionswhich
resulted in personal tragedy for the Vanpopering and Columbus
familiesaffect the daily lives of many parents, who find
that desire to be good mothers and fathers, and love for their
children, are often not enough to navigate the cruel conditions
of contemporary American society.
Leonard Columbus, 35, married Carissa, 25, in May 2003. Though
Leonard had a 10-year-old son from his previous marriage, the
couple shared a strong desire to have children of their own. Carrisa,
a diabetic, had miscarried the last time the couple tried to conceive,
and doctors told her she would be unable to carry a child to term.
Like other couples facing infertility, they felt that adoption
or finding a surrogate mother were their only options. Adoption
costs vary widely in the US, but fees through a private agency
can range anywhere from $4,000 to more than $30,000. Although
this varies by state, most public agency adoptionsthough
less expensive, costing from zero to $2,500only place children
with special physical, mental, or emotional needs.
Those seeking infertility treatment also find the costs astronomical.
A single in-vitro fertilization (IVF) attempt can cost as much
as $10,000, and IVF is rarely covered by medical insurance. Clearly,
a wealthy couple has a much better chance of becoming the parents
of a healthy baby.
The Columbuses, on the other hand, were struggling to make
ends meet. Leonard was an assembly line worker at Ford Motor Companys
Rouge plant in nearby Dearborn. Carissa was on disability from
the same plant. Leonard Columbus told Southgate detectives that
he was on the verge of filing bankruptcy. His car had recently
been possessed. Under these financial conditions, a private-agency
adoption was out of the question.
But costs are often reduced when a couple arranges on their
own with a woman who is willing to give up her child for adoption,
or be a surrogate mother. Kelly Klug told the Detroit Free
Press that the Columbuses befriended her last July at the
Applebees restaurant in nearby Woodhaven, where she worked
as a waitress, and eventually asked if she would be willing to
serve as a surrogate. She declined, although she commented, They
seemed to be a very loving and devoted couple.
Last September, the couple met 19-year-old Sara Vanpopering,
the mother of six-month-old Tyler and year-and-a-half old daughter
McKenzie, through a mutual friend. Like many young, single mothers,
Sara had no support system outside of her immediate family. There
is no government-sponsored day care for infants and young children
in the US. According to some estimates, parents can expect to
pay upwards of $800 a month to keep two children in a licensed
day care facility, with costs much higher in major metropolitan
areas. Non-licensed centers often provide substandard care.
With two small children to care for, Sara was forced to quit
high school but wanted to re-enroll. She began to frequently ask
the Columbus couple to babysit her two children, and the couple
expressed a desire to adopt them. Sara told the Free Press,
I was unable to take care of them at the time. I couldnt
find a job. She said she had been planning to give her children
up for adoption to the couple. Saras brother Mark commented,
[Sara] was too young to have kids. She thought they [the
Columbuses] were financially secure and everything, and shed
be able to see them and stuff.
Leonard and Carissa Columbus were caring for Tyler and McKenzie
over Easter weekend. On the evening of Sunday, April 11, they
brought Tyler to the emergency room of Wyandotte Hospital, saying
he had had a seizure and stopped breathing while they ate at a
Toledo, Ohio, restaurant, and they had been unable to resuscitate
him.
But when Tyler was airlifted to University of Michigan Hospital
in Ann Arbor, doctors determined that his condition was consistent
with injuries suffered with Shaken Baby Syndrome (SBS). They discovered
two cranial bleeds, one old and one recent, which in SBS cases
usually occur beneath the outer membrane that covers the spinal
cord and brain.
Hospital officials told police that the new injury almost certainly
happened within two hours before his admission to the hospital
on April 11. As Tyler had been in the Columbuses care during this
period, all indications led investigators to believe that one
of them was responsible. Tyler died three days later, on April
14. Although the couple werent immediately charged in the
babys death, they were told by investigators that they should
make themselves available for questioning.
Without question, baby shaking is an aggressive act carried
out by an adult against a defenseless child. If Leonard or Carissa
Columbus was responsible for Tylers death, it was a violent
crime, and thousands of young children have fallen victim to such
abuse. Although figures are difficult to determine, the National
Center on Shaken Baby Syndrome estimates that there are anywhere
from 600 to 1,400 SBS cases per year in the US. It is generally
recognized as the most common cause of mortality and is responsible
for the most long-term disability in infants and young children
due to physical abuse.
An adult forcefully shaking an infant for as little as 20 secondsperhaps
40-50 shakescan cause fatal injuries, including brain and
retinal hemorrhaging. A babys unrelenting crying is the
most common trigger for a caretaker to shake a baby uncontrollably.
Young fathers are most likely to inflict SBS, out of inexperience
and frustration at being unable to calm the child. Poorly trained
daycare providers are also responsible for a substantial number
of cases.
However, many parents are unaware that shaking a baby or young
child is so deadly. There are no government advisories on SBS,
and in the vast majority of cases, mothers leave the hospital
after childbirth with no information on SBS, or on how to cope
with the stress of being alone with a crying infant. As is the
case with many social problems in the US, education on Shaken
Baby Syndrome is left to private advocacy groups with limited
resources.
Although details of the events leading up to Tyler Vanpoperings
death will never be known fully, Leonard or Carissa Columbus were
in all likelihood responsible. But if one or both of them were
to blame for inflicting the babys deadly injury, they probably
had no intention of harming the child. Most likely devastated
and wracked by guilt, they did not respond to police attempts
to reach them.
On Saturday, April 17, Southgate police broke into their home
and found the two dead in their garage of carbon monoxide poisoning.
Carissa Columbus had left a note that read in part: No one
here would ever hurt Saras kids. Please make sure our dogs
are taken care of. Their next-door neighbor told the Free
Press: Ive never seen them be hostile toward the
children or hostile toward each other.
The heartbreaking outcome for all those involved in this terrible
chain of events is an indictment of a social system that fails
to provide the most minimal social and financial assistance to
young parents and working families. Individuals are left to deal
on their own with difficulties that are in fact social problems,
and authorities are likely to step in only after catastrophe has
struck.
An infant dead, a victim of Shaken Baby Syndrome; his prospective
adoptive parents, a double suicidesuch tragedies are beyond
belief only to the extent that ones eyes are closed
to the social crisis gripping all facets of American life.
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